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Holmdel, New Jersey 07733
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Family Day Calendar 2024-25 |
MONTH | Seasonal/Themed Presentations | Family Devotions (all CYO eligible) Monthly on Wednesdays in the Church - Themes TBA | Special Liturgies/Parish Events (all CYO eligible) |
September | 25th - 4-5pm only Family Devotions: "Hiding God’s Word in the Hearts of our Families” | 15th - 9:30am - Catechetical Sunday Mass 28th - 4:30pm - Knights of Columbus Family Rosary | |
October | 26th - 10:30-11:30am Spiritual Adoption Baby Shower | 23rd - 4-5 & 6-7pm Family Devotions | 19th - 5pm & 20th - 8, 9:30, 11am & 5pm Teaching Mass - LIturgy of the Word 26th - 4:30pm - Knights of Columbus Family Rosary |
November | 9th - 10:30-11:30am "God so Loves the World" Family Day | 13th - 4-5 & 6-7pm Family Devotions | 20th - 7pm - Scripture & Song 30th - 4:30pm - Knights of Columbus Family Rosary |
December | 7th - 10:30-11:30am or 12:30-1:30pm "The Jesse Tree" Advent Family Day | 11th - 4-5pm only Family Devotions | 8th - 2:30 - Advent Penance Service 24th - 3:30-6pm - Christmas Pageant followed by Mass 28th - 4:30pm - Knights of Columbus Family Rosary |
January | 11th - 10:30-11:30am "A Bible Adventure" | 14th - 4-5 & 6-7pm Family Devotions | 25th - 4:30pm - Knights of Columbus Family Rosary |
February | 22nd - 10:30-11:30am "Bible Treasure Hunting" | 12th - 4-5 & 6-7pm Family Devotions | 22nd - 4:30pm - Knights of Columbus Family Rosary |
March | 30th - 10:30-11:30am "Journey with Jesus to Calvary" | 5th - ASH WEDNESDAY - 9am -Mass 6:30am, 8am, 12:10pm, 3:30pm, 5pm & 7pm - Services 7th, 12th, 14th, 19th, 21st, 26th, and 28th - 5:30pm Stations of the Cross 15th - 5pm and 16th - 8, 9:30, 11am and 5pm Teaching Mass - Liturgy of the Eucharist 29th - 4:30 pm - Knights of Columbus Family Rosary | |
April | 30th - 4-5 & 6-7pm Family Devotions | 2nd, 4th, 9th, 11th & 16th - 5:30pm Stations of the Cross 17th - 7pm Mass of the Last Supper 18th - 3-4pm Liturgy of the Passion of the Lord and Veneration of the Cross 18th - 7pm Seven Last Words 19th - 8pm Easter Vigil 26th - 4:30pm - Knights of Columbus Family Rosary | |
May | 10th - 3:30-4:30pm or 11th - 9am-10:30am ""Not by Bread Alone" Family Day | 11th - 4-5 & 6-7pm Family Devotions | 4th - 11am - Mass with May Crowning following 31st - 4:30pm - Knights of Columbus Family Rosary |
June | 11th - 4-5pm only Family Devotions | 22nd - 11am Corpus Christi Mass and Procession 28th - 4:30pm - Knights of Columbus Family Rosary |
2nd Year Preparation for First Reconciliation/First Communion(FHC)
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Month | Date | Time | Session | Space Assigned | |
September | 29th | 10:30-11:30 am | FHC/FIRST PENANCE PREP SESSION 1 (Option 1) {Parents only} | Gym (Use Door #8B) | |
30th | 6:30-7:30 pm | FHC/FIRST PENANCE PREP SESSION 1 (Option 2) {Parents only} | Church | ||
October | 1st | 5:30-6:30 pm | FHC/FIRST PENANCE PREP SESSION 1 (Option 3) {Parents only} | Church | |
27th | 5 pm | FHC Enrollment Mass with Pizza Dinner | Church/Gym | ||
November | 3rd | 10:30-11:30 am | FHC/FIRST PENANCE PREP SESSION 2 (Option 1) | Gym (Use Door #8B)) | |
11th | 4:30-5:30 pm 6:30-7:30 pm | FHC/FIRST PENANCE PREP SESSION 2 (Option 2) FHC/FIRST PENANCE PREP SESSION 2 (Option 3) | Gym (Use Door #8B) | ||
12th | 5:30 – 6:30 pm | FHC/FIRST PENANCE PREP SESSION 2 (Option 4) | Gym (Use Door #8B) | ||
December | 8th | 2 pm 2:30 pm | FIRST PENANCE “A-L” “M-Z” | Church | |
March | 2nd | 10:30-11:30 am | FHC PREP SESSION 3 (Option 1) | Gym (Use Door #8B) | |
3rd | 4:30:5:30 pm 6:30-7:30 pm | FHC PREP SESSION 3 (Option 2) FHC PREP SESSION 3 (Option 3) | Gym (Use Door #8B) | ||
4th | 5:30-6:30 pm | FHC PREP SESSION 3 (Option 4) | Gym (Use Door #8B) | ||
29th | 9am-Noon | FHC Gathering Day (Retreat/Formation) | Gym (Use Door #1) | ||
The Reception of First Penance & First Holy Communion at St. Benedict takes place during the second year of catechetical formation. Students attend 4 Sacramental Formation Sessions ("Family Days" - see schedule above) in addition to their regular faith formation classes, and rehearsal for the Sacrament. In addition, we gather for a Special Liturgy - (the Enrollment Mass), which families are strongly encouraged to attend. Sessions are as follows:
Visit the St. Benedict Adoration Chapel as part of your family days formation.
Every hour of time spent in Adoration will be considered as one family day.
Instructions and worksheets are in the Chapel.
This event is CYO eligible!
Sign-up sheets are in the Chapel
SHARING GOD'S BLESSINGS - Clean Water Project
“I was thirsty and you gave me a drink.” Over the past 15 years, International Help of Missionaries –IHM – a volunteer organization that works directly with the Church in Ghana, Uganda, Nigeria and Tanzania (as well as here at home), has helped over 200,000 people gain access to clean water as well as other basic necessities of life. The Founder of IHM, Mr. Don Magnota visited us this past weekend to share about the water crisis in the communities he works with, and the ministry’s goal to help the many people still in need, especially women and children who spend countless hours traveling by foot to gather water which is often contaminated and unsafe to drink. As part of our “giving” efforts during the month of November, the RE families are partnering with IHM, through the small sacrifices of the children in our program, to raise money toward drilling a new well for the people of Adzonkor, Ghana. We’d like to invite members of the parish to join us in our efforts.
If you’d like to make a donation, please contact the Faith Formation Office. Thank you!